Warning Signs for Teens

If you are involved in the lives of adolescents, you can learn to recognize warning signs that a teen has been sexually assaulted or abused. Studies show that ages 12-34 are the highest risk years for crimes of sexual violence and that females ages 16-19 are four times more likely than the general population to be victims of these crimes. If you can learn how to spot sexual assault or abuse, you can do something to help.

Signs that a teen may have been sexually abused

Some of the warning signs that a teen has been sexually assaulted or abused can easily blend in with the everyday struggles teens face as they learn how to relate to their bodies, peers, and environments. If something doesn’t seem right, trust your instincts. It’s better to ask and be wrong than to let a teen struggle with the effects of sexual assault. Remind the teen that if they come to you, you will believe them, and that if something happened, it is not their fault.

If you notice the following warning signs in a teen, it’s worth reaching out to them:

• Unusual weight gain or weight loss;
• Unhealthy eating patterns, like a loss of appetite or excessive eating;
• Signs of physical abuse, such as bruises;
• Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or other genital infections;
• Signs of depression, such as persistent sadness, lack of energy, changes in sleep or appetite, withdrawing from normal activities, or feeling “down”;
• Anxiety or worry;
• Falling grades;
• Changes in self-care, such as paying less attention to hygiene, appearance, or fashion than they usually do;
• Self-harming behavior;
• Expressing thoughts about suicide or suicide behavior;
• Drinking or drug use.

Using technology to hurt others

Teens may also experience sexual harassment or other unwanted behaviors through technology and online interactions. Some people use technology such as photos, videos, apps, and even social media to harass or engage in unsolicited, or non-consensual sexual interactions. It can leave the person on the other end feeling manipulated, unsafe, and exposed, like when someone forwards a photo, or text about sex intended only for the original recipient. The laws pertaining to these situations vary from state to state and platform to platform, and they are evolving rapidly. Learn more about how these people use technology to harm others.

Taking action isn’t easy, but it’s important

Open communication can be a challenge with teens, but it’s an important part of keeping them safe. As teens become more independent and spend more time with friends and other activities, it’s important to keep the lines of communication open and let your teen know they can trust you. Learn more about talking to kids and teens about sexual assault.

If you want to talk about sexual violence with a professional ready to help, send an email to: help@asistentavictime.ro