I Am a Kid and Something Happened
If someone touches you or shows you something that makes you feel like you are not safe, you don't have to keep it a secret. It's not ok for anyone to touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable - even if they are older or in charge. It's not right, and it's not your fault.
Tell Someone
If somebody touches you in a way you don't like or touches an area covered by a bathing suit, tell all this to someone you trust.
Say „NO“
If somebody wants to hug you, kiss you, or touch your body, you can always tell them no. It's not normal for anyone to touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable - even if they are older or in charge, like your teacher. You can always say no to any touch that makes you feel unsafe or uncomfortable.
Some secrets are OK to be shared
You don't have to keep secrets about spending time with someone or getting gifts from them. If someone makes you scared or upset, it's OK to tell a grown-up you trust
Pictures are private
It is not normal if someone takes a picture of you, and you don't want them to! If they want to take a picture of your private parts, that is not OK either! You can tell a grown-up you trust right away.
It's OK if you are scared
It's normal to feel scared about saying something that might put you in an uncomfortable position. But it is an extremely courageous thing to do. Keep telling people until someone helps you.
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